Hurting others in relationship

When people hurt us, unintentionally, it comes from a sense of insecurity, frustration, and expectation or regret that your behaviour was, according to their perception, inadequate. We need to not attach to the other’s emotional state, release them, and forgive them for they are not aware of what they do, demonstrated by their sometimes repeated attempts to reconcile after being guilt-ridden for behaving badly. Let us continue to give our love unconditionally, to for-give those who are unable to reciprocate, and to keep receiving the grace of forgiveness and detachment through reverence for self and fortitude in the truth. The need to judge and control environment arises from a obsessive need to have security, safety, and attempt to arrest chaos and change from occurring, which is impossible, unreasonable, and the result of carrying history and stories about past disappointments. Being unable to surrender the past results in OCD behaviours which arises from an inner insecurity.
When people hurt us intentionally from a position of righteousness or revenge or justice they still know not what they do as they haven’t considered the consequences of their actions before acting otherwise they wouldn’t do it.
So they still deserve our compassion, understanding, and forgiveness.


About Pranic Roger

I have been developing my healing skills since 1998 and have been on a personal purification journey and free from substance dependency since 1989 following twenty-three years of dependency to nicotine and alcohol. I operate a fee-for-service healing facility and utilize deep-tissue massage techniques and pranic healing techniques to remove blockages to healing and surrender, and expulsion of negative energy thought forms and entities from the body, chakras, and aura. My website is: The secondary website for more information about energy work is :, and That's what goes on when I'm not outside nurturing my garden which occurs from April to November.
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